Thursday, February 04, 2021

Where Is Your Bookmark? (What I Am Reading Now / Connect 5: Memoirs / BBHOP)




A weekly meme where readers share the first sentence of the book they are reading and say what they think. Hosted by the amazing Gillion Dumas of Rose City Reader.

When I was a kid, my aspirations were simple. [Opening line of Becoming]



A weekly meme in which readers share a random sentence or two from page 56 or 56% of the book they are reading. Hosted by the wonderful Freda of Freda's Voice.


I knew only that we were the best students coming out of what was thought to be a middling, mostly black school in a middling, mostly black neighborhood. But what if that wasn't enough? What if, after all this fuss, were were just the best of the worst? [from page 56 of Becoming]
One of the books I am reading at the moment is Becoming by Michelle Obama, which has been on my TBR shelf for awhile. I have long held a lot of respect and admiration for the former First Lady and have been wanting to read this book for some time. The opening line above is from the preface.  Michelle Obama goes on to give examples such as a dog and four door station wagon. She tells people she wants to be a pediatrician when she grows up because that's an answer adults like to hear. I appreciated this insight into a young Michelle. 

The early pages of the book go into her life as a child, including the changes she observes as the demographics of her neighborhood and school changes. In the Friday 56 passage, she and two other students she grew up with are are starting a new magnet school for gifted students. Michelle, who has always been a confident student, suddenly doubts herself among these more privileged students she suddenly finds herself surrounded by. 

In a life filled with meaning and accomplishment, Michelle Obama has emerged as one of the most iconic and compelling women of our era. As First Lady of the United States of America—the first African American to serve in that role—she helped create the most welcoming and inclusive White House in history, while also establishing herself as a powerful advocate for women and girls in the U.S. and around the world, dramatically changing the ways that families pursue healthier and more active lives, and standing with her husband as he led America through some of its most harrowing moments. Along the way, she showed us a few dance moves, crushed Carpool Karaoke, and raised two down-to-earth daughters under an unforgiving media glare.

In her memoir, a work of deep reflection and mesmerizing storytelling, Michelle Obama invites readers into her world, chronicling the experiences that have shaped her—from her childhood on the South Side of Chicago to her years as an executive balancing the demands of motherhood and work, to her time spent at the world’s most famous address. With unerring honesty and lively wit, she describes her triumphs and her disappointments, both public and private, telling her full story as she has lived it—in her own words and on her own terms. Warm, wise, and revelatory, Becoming is the deeply personal reckoning of a woman of soul and substance who has steadily defied expectations—and whose story inspires us to do the same. [Goodreads Summary]

Have you read Becoming? What did you think? What are you reading right now?

Originally a feature called Last Year I Was Reading created by Maria from ReadingMaria
I liked it enough to continue on my own, but have tweaked it
 to feature Five Years Ago I Was Reading. 
(I would have gone back ten, but I read so little in 2011)


Five years ago at this time I had just finished The Girl in the Red Coat by Kate Hamer about a girl abducted from her mother by a man who believes she is some sort of savior. The novel follows both the mother, whose grief over her missing daughter is palpable, and the daughter who is taken from the mother she loves and is forced into an unfamiliar situation where she is both revered and neglected. While not quite a heart-stopping read, The Girl in the Red Coat was a compelling one.


What were you reading five years ago? 

Connect Five Friday is a weekly meme where readers share a list of five books, 
read or unread, or bookish things, that share a common theme. 
Hosted by the  Kathryn of of Book Date.


I am currently reading Becoming by Michelle Obama, and thought I would feature memoirs/essays by African American women I want to read in celebration of Black History Month. Here are five of them: 

Bad Feminist
by Roxanne Gay
Pink is my favorite color. I used to say my favorite color was black to be cool, but it is pink—all shades of pink. If I have an accessory, it is probably pink. I read Vogue, and I’m not doing it ironically, though it might seem that way. I once live-tweeted the September issue.

In these funny and insightful essays, Roxane Gay takes us through the journey of her evolution as a woman of color while also taking readers on a ride through culture of the last few years and commenting on the state of feminism today. The portrait that emerges is not only one of an incredibly insightful woman continually growing to understand herself and our society, but also one of our culture.

Bad Feminist is a sharp, funny, and spot-on look at the ways in which the culture we consume becomes who we are, and an inspiring call-to-arms of all the ways we still need to do better. [Goodreads Summary]

We Are Never Meeting in Real Life
 by Samantha Irby
Sometimes you just have to laugh, even when life is a dumpster fire. With We Are Never Meeting in Real Life., "bitches gotta eat" blogger and comedian Samantha Irby turns the serio-comic essay into an art form. Whether talking about how her difficult childhood has led to a problem in making "adult" budgets, explaining why she should be the new Bachelorette--she's "35-ish, but could easily pass for 60-something"--detailing a disastrous pilgrimage-slash-romantic-vacation to Nashville to scatter her estranged father's ashes, sharing awkward sexual encounters, or dispensing advice on how to navigate friendships with former drinking buddies who are now suburban moms--hang in there for the Costco loot--she's as deft at poking fun at the ghosts of her past self as she is at capturing powerful emotional truths. [Goodreads Summary]


The Truths We Hold: An American Journey
by Kamala Harris
From Kamala Harris, one of America's most inspiring political leaders and Joe Biden's pick for his 2020 running mate, a book about the core truths that unite us, and the long struggle to discern what those truths are and how best to act upon them, in her own life and across the life of our country

Vice President Kamala Harris's commitment to speaking truth is informed by her upbringing. The daughter of immigrants, she was raised in an Oakland, California community that cared deeply about social justice; her parents--an esteemed economist from Jamaica and an admired cancer researcher from India--met as activists in the civil rights movement when they were graduate students at Berkeley. Growing up, Harris herself never hid her passion for justice, and when she became a prosecutor out of law school, a deputy district attorney, she quickly established herself as one of the most innovative change agents in American law enforcement. She progressed rapidly to become the elected District Attorney for San Francisco, and then the chief law enforcement officer of the state of California as a whole. Known for bringing a voice to the voiceless, she took on the big banks during the foreclosure crisis, winning a historic settlement for California's working families. Her hallmarks were applying a holistic, data-driven approach to many of California's thorniest issues, always eschewing stale tough on crime rhetoric as presenting a series of false choices. Neither tough nor soft but smart on crime became her mantra. Being smart means learning the truths that can make us better as a community, and supporting those truths with all our might. That has been the pole star that guided Harris to a transformational career as the top law enforcement official in California, and it is guiding her now as a transformational United States Senator, grappling with an array of complex issues that affect her state, our country, and the world, from health care and the new economy to immigration, national security, the opioid crisis, and accelerating inequality.

By reckoning with the big challenges we face together, drawing on the hard-won wisdom and insight from her own career and the work of those who have most inspired her, Kamala Harris offers in THE TRUTHS WE HOLD a master class in problem solving, in crisis management, and leadership in challenging times. Through the arc of her own life, on into the great work of our day, she communicates a vision of shared struggle, shared purpose, and shared values. In a book rich in many home truths, not least is that a relatively small number of people work very hard to convince a great many of us that we have less in common than we actually do, but it falls to us to look past them and get on with the good work of living our common truth. When we do, our shared effort will continue to sustain us and this great nation, now and in the years to come. [Goodreads Summary]

You'll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey: Crazy Stories About Racism
by Amber Ruffin & Lacey Lamar
Now a writer and performer on Late Night with Seth Meyers and host of The Amber Ruffin Show, Amber Ruffin lives in New York, where she is no one's First Black Friend and everyone is, as she puts it, "stark raving normal." But Amber's sister Lacey? She's still living in their home state of Nebraska, and trust us, you'll never believe what happened to Lacey.

From racist donut shops to strangers putting their whole hand in her hair, from being mistaken for a prostitute to being mistaken for Harriet Tubman, Lacey is a lightning rod for hilariously ridiculous yet all-too-real anecdotes. She's the perfect mix of polite, beautiful, petite, and Black that apparently makes people think "I can say whatever I want to this woman." And now, Amber and Lacey share these entertainingly horrifying stories through their laugh-out-loud sisterly banter. Painfully relatable or shockingly eye-opening (depending on how often you have personally been followed by security at department stores), this book tackles modern-day racism with the perfect balance of levity and gravity.
[Goodreads Summary]

Eloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpower
 by Brittney C. Cooper
So what if it’s true that Black women are mad as hell? They have the right to be. In the Black feminist tradition of Audre Lorde, Brittney Cooper reminds us that anger is a powerful source of energy that can give us the strength to keep on fighting.

Far too often, Black women’s anger has been caricatured into an ugly and destructive force that threatens the civility and social fabric of American democracy. But Cooper shows us that there is more to the story than that. Black women’s eloquent rage is what makes Serena Williams such a powerful tennis player. It’s what makes Beyoncé’s girl power anthems resonate so hard. It’s what makes Michelle Obama an icon.

Eloquent rage keeps us all honest and accountable. It reminds women that they don’t have to settle for less. When Cooper learned of her grandmother's eloquent rage about love, sex, and marriage in an epic and hilarious front-porch confrontation, her life was changed. And it took another intervention, this time staged by one of her homegirls, to turn Brittney into the fierce feminist she is today. In Brittney Cooper’s world, neither mean girls nor fuckboys ever win. But homegirls emerge as heroes. This book argues that ultimately feminism, friendship, and faith in one's own superpowers are all we really need to turn things right side up again. [Goodreads Summary]
Have you read any of these books? What memoirs or essay collections by African American women would you recommend? 



Every Friday Coffee Addicted Writer from Coffee Addicted Writer poses a question which participants respond on their own blogs within the week (Friday through Thursday). They then share their links at the main site and visit other participants blogs.
What book series would you like to see adapted as a Netflix series? (submitted by Billy @ Coffee Addicted Writer)

 

I can think of several, but at the top of that list would be The Invisible Library series by Genevieve Cogman. I would love to see this fantasy/mystery series come to life on the screen. 

What about you?


 I hope you all have a wonderful weekend! Be sure and tell me what you are reading and are up to!


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50 comments:

  1. I haven't read Becoming, but I want to eventually read it. Have a great weekend!

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    1. Breana - I am enjoying it so far. I've had the book sitting on my shelf for awhile and figured it was time to finally pick it up and read it. I hope you have a great weekend too. Thank you for visiting!

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  2. Becoming has been on my TBR list for a looong time - but I'm definitely going to read it some day! (It's just so overhyped I'm a bit scared to start!)

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    1. Eustacia - I still remember when I got it for Christmas. It's taken me forever to get to it. I'm so glad I am reading it now. I hope you enjoy it when you read it. I understand how off putting all the hype can be. It's kept me away from certain books as well. Thank you for stopping by!

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  3. Have a great weekend! Here's my post:

    https://collettaskitchensink.blogspot.com/2021/02/my-weekly-bookishness-252021.html

    Colletta

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  4. What a great list of possibilities! I really want to read You'll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey.

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    1. Jenclair - I do too. You'll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey sounds like it will be good! Funny and maddening at the same time. Thank you for visiting!

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  5. I loved Becoming! I also love the look of all your books today. Thanks for sharing, and here's mine: “THE SHADOW BOX”

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    1. Laurel-Rain - I am enjoying Becoming. I've put off reading it too long! Thank you for stopping by!

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    1. Freda - I hope you get a chance to read it! Have a great weekend too. Thank you for visiting!

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  7. I loved Becoming and enjoyed how candid it was. She just came out with the young adult version.

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    1. Ti - I'll have to look for the young adult version for Mouse. It might be too old for her just yet, but maybe I can interest her when she's a bit older. Thank you for stopping by!

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  8. I enjoyed your snippets from Becoming. Especially this line here: "But what if that wasn't enough? What if, after all this fuss, were were just the best of the worst?"

    Also, thank you for highlighting some other works by African-American women. Many of these titles were new to me and I'm excited to look up more information on them.

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    1. E.M. - That line really resonated with me too.

      If you give one or more of the memoirs a try, I hope you will like it! I look forward to reading them myself.

      Thank you for visiting!

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  9. I was just thinking about Michelle Obama's book yesterday. We had tickets to see her but it was postponed due to a huge snowstorm. She came back a month later and was great. My quotes this week

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    1. Anne - I am glad you got to see and hear Michelle Obama. I would have been over the moon. Thank you for stopping by!

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  10. I have not read Michelle's book yet, and had no idea how it started, nice!!
    My post is here https://francebooktours.com/2021/02/05/loving-modigliani-book-beginnings/

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    1. Emma - I think most people I know listened to the audio version, which I've heard is great. I'm really enjoying Becoming so far. She's just about to meet her husband for the first time!

      Thank you for visiting!

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  11. Thank you for your list of 5 memoirs/essays. There a couple I hadn't heard of but sound so good that I need to add them to my list.

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    1. Iliana - I'd gotten away from memoirs for awhile there, but I find myself wanting to dive into them more again. I think these are definitely worth a look. Thank you for stopping by!

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  12. Hi Wendy

    I don't read too many memoirs, although I do have every admiration for both the Obama's, especially Michelle, who has championed so many changes for women all over the world.

    By coincidence February 5th 2016 was also a Friday and I actually took part in the BBOF meme, featuring the book 'Under A Cornish Sky' by Liz Fenwick

    https://www.fiction-books.biz/first-lines/under-a-cornish-sky-by-liz-fenwick/

    My goodness, how dated those posts look now, after the odd refresh over the years!

    Thanks for sharing such an interesting post and have a good weekend :)

    Yvonne x

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    1. Yvonne - I do not read a lot of memoirs either but occasionally find a few that catch my interest. I tend to shy away from ones by political figures in particular, but I couldn't resist Michelle Obama's. I have Kamala Harris's also to read.

      Thank you to the link of what you were reading five years ago! Under A Cornish Sky sounds like a good one. I know what you mean about how dated our old posts look. Sometimes it is fun to look back and other times it is a little embarrassing. Haha.

      Thank you for visiting. I hope you have a great weekend too.

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  13. I've heard such great things about Becoming. I hope you love it! The Invisible Library sounds like it would be fantastic as a Netflix show!

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    1. Katherine - So far I am really enjoying it!

      I admit I would be a bit nervous about them making the Invisible Library series a show. I sure hope they'd have a big budget and can do it justice!

      Thank you for stopping by!

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  14. Michelle Obama, Roxane Gay, Kamala Harris--I'll read anything these women write. I find their insights poignant and brilliant. Have a wonderful reading weekend!

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    1. Catherine - I can't wait to read Harris and Gay's books. Becoming is really good. I hope you have a great weekend too! Thank you for visiting!

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  15. I've been wanting to read Becoming for awhile. Hopefully I can get to it soon. It looks like a great book.

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    1. Yvonne - I hope you can too! It only took me a couple of years. LOL Thank you for stopping by!

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  16. A fantasy/mystery sounds great - I'd watch it!

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    1. Louise - It's a great book series and would make a good TV series if done right. Thank you for visiting!

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  17. I have never heard of The Invisible Library. Although a fantasy/mystery does sound like a fun series!

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    1. Jamie - It's a great series if you get the chance to read it. There is magic, multi-dimensions, fae, and dragons. And of course, an invisible library! Thank you for stopping by!

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  18. I've been wanting to read Becoming too! It should've been my first non-fiction choice of the year but uh, I procrastinated 😅 But I hope to pick it up soon 🤔

    The Girl in the Red Cost sounds interesting 🤔 Will definitely check it out! 👀

    I am adding all the 5 books to my TBR immediately!

    I'mma check out The Invisible Library series 🤔

    I don't really read a lot of series tbh so I haven't come across ones that I'd like to see as Netflix series or as movie adaptions 🤔

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    1. Appy - I hope you enjoy Becoming if you read it. It's good so far. And if you give The Invisible Library a series chance, I hope you like it too. It's worth trying if you like a mix of fantasy, history, adventure and mystery. Thank you for visiting!

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  19. I think it'd be awesome if The Invisible Library was made into a Netflix series. I'd love to see that happen. Hope you have a great weekend! :)

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    1. Ashley - I hope you have a great weekend too. Thank you for stopping by!

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  20. I loved Becoming. I listened to it on audio, she is so amazing plus entertaining. I watched her on Netflix as well. I read Kamala Harris book too, I think there is a new biography out of her as well. I would recommend Shonda Rhimes book " My year of Yes." Again she does the audio of that as well and its fantastic.

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    1. Kathryn - I've heard the audio of Becoming is good. I have a copy of My Year of Yes in audio, but I don't know when I will be able to get to it. Since the pandemic started, I haven't been able to listen to audiobooks. Someday. Thank you for visiting!

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  21. I loved Bad Feminist and Becoming - both such great books and the others are on my list as well. I'd like to especially read We Are Never Meeting in Real Life.

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    1. Athira - I am glad to hear you enjoyed both those books! Becoming is great so far. Thank you for stopping by!

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  22. I have read both Bad Feminist and Becoming and enjoyed them both for different reasons. I haven't read any of the others, but they sound good and itneresting!

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    1. Helen - Another thumbs up for both book! That's good news for me. :-) I really like Becoming so far. Thank you for visiting!

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  23. I listened to Becoming and thought it was wonderful. I just picked up a copy of the Kamala Harris book. She's such an interesting person and I can't wait to learn more about her.

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    1. Suzanne - I've heard the audio version of Becoming was very good. I hope we both enjoy Kamala Harris's memoir when we read it! Thank you for stopping by!

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  24. Becoming was excellent. Her voice really comes through.

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    1. Lauren - I am enjoying Becoming. :-) Thank you for visiting!

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  25. I really should pick up Becoming. I don't read a lot of memoirs but this sounds fantastic. I think that The Invisible Library series would make a great show!

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