Thursday, January 30, 2014

Throw Back Thursday: In Remembrance of My Dad on His Birthday

My dad would have been 71 this year.  He passed away in September of 2011.  I see him still in so many places: in a man walking his dog, a Marine Corps bumper sticker on the back of a car, the image of a wolf, a jigsaw puzzle, the books on my shelves, a taste of lemon pie, a war or action movie, the mountains on the horizon that I see on my way to work every day, my daughter's eyes, and in some of my own words and mannerisms.  I hear his voice sometimes. I know he would be proud of my brother and me.  He would also be proud of my mom and my half-sister, and most especially his two granddaughters.   Miss you, Dad. 

My dad, brother, Huppy, and I at Donner Pass, 1985
(Camping was one of my father's favorite hobbies.)



The graduate, June 1986

(My dad, a career Marine, had been told by his teachers in high school he wouldn't survive college.  Years later, he was so proud to prove them wrong, a straight A student, receiving his Associates degree in Accounting.)

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Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Bookish Thoughts: Fast Women by Jennifer Crusie

The man behind the cluttered desk looked like the devil, and Nell Dysart figured that was par for her course since she'd been going to hell for a year and a half anyway. Meeting Gabriel McKenna just meant she'd arrived. ~ Opening to Fast Women


Fast Women by Jennifer Crusie
St. Martin's Press, 2001
Fiction (Romance); 496 pgs

From the Publisher:  
Nell Dysart's in trouble.Weighed down by an inexplicable divorce and a loss of appetite for everything, Nell is sleepwalking through life until her best friend finagles a job for her with a shabby little detective agency that has lots of potential and a boss who looks easy to manage.Gabe McKenna isn't doing too well, either. His detective agency is wasting time on a blackmail case, his partner has decided he hates watching cheating spouses for money, and his ex-wife has just dumped him . . . again. The only thing that is going his way is that his new secretary looks efficient, boring, and biddable. But looks can be deceiving, and soon Nell and Gabe are squaring off over embezzlement, business cards, vandalism, dog-napping, blackmail, Chinese food, unprofessional sex, and really ugly office furniture, all of which turn out to be the least of their problems. Because shortly after that, somebody starts killing people. And shortly after that, they start falling in love.
One of my unofficial goals this year is to take part in more of the group reads in one of my online book groups, On the Porch Swing.  The group often has interesting and lively discussions, and I wanted to be a part of that this year.  To begin the year, January's pick was Fast Women by Jennifer Crusie.  I have never read anything by this author before, although I have heard of her.  She's a favorite in many circles.

I did not really know what to expect when I began reading Fast Women.  When I hear Jennifer Crusie's name, I automatically think romance, and in this book, there was plenty of that.  The mystery, however, often takes center stage in the novel, which makes it more my kind of story.

While Gabe and Nell are the main protagonists, there are other characters who have strong story lines throughout the novel, including Gabe's partner Riley and Nell's best friends (and sisters-in-law), Suze and Margie.  

Betrayal, loss, women coming into their own, redefining who they are later in life, and finding love after having been betrayed are themes that each of the women in the novel share.  I really appreciated the depth the author went into in fleshing out her characters, even the more minor ones, and their motivations.  The growth of the more major characters over the course of the novel was also well done, including the self reflection and re-assessment of their situations.  By the end of the novel, it's easy to see why certain things happened the way they did, even if bad decisions were made.  In terms of the relationships gone sour, I mean.

In terms of the mystery, well, I liked how the author built up to the climax.  It was a slow build, built around the characters and their personal drama, but the more events came to light, the more complex and slippery the mystery became.  Like the relationships in this book, the mystery itself is one big tangle.  Until its not.  I appreciated the internal struggle Gabe was going through, concerned his father may have been involved in or had covered up the murder of the wife of his father's long time friend. It really would be difficult to be in that situation.  Like Gabe, I would want to know the truth, to hope to clear my father's name.  

I liked the characters alright.  I wanted to like them more.  My first thought was that perhaps it has to do with the fact that I cannot really relate to what they are going through in their personal lives, dealing with marital affairs and divorce, but other authors have been able to draw me and help me relate without any trouble. So, it can't be that. I think part of it was the fact that so much was going on in the novel, as well as my just not really connecting with any of the characters.

Even so, I really felt for Nell.  She had worked hard her entire life, helping her husband establish his insurance business, basically running it for him, raising their son, and then all of that disappeared out from under her when her husband left her for another woman.  It made me angry and sad.  One of my favorite scenes in the novel is when Nell finally lets loose and lets her ex know how she really feels about his actions.

Of the characters though, my favorite would have to be Gabe.  He was a good person and there was nothing about him that was manipulative or shifty or dishonest.  He could be clueless at times, but he admitted when he was wrong (mostly).

One of the aspects of the novel I appreciated too was the juxtaposition of the young and the old(er). Although Nell's son and Gabe's daughter were not focused on often in the novel, they were enough of a presence to get a feel for the differences and similarities between new and more established romantic relationships.

There is also the relationship between the women.  Their friendship was quite strong and I thought it was wonderful how they supported each other, how they banded together when one of them needed help, whether it be stealing a dog or working through a divorce.  I'm always a little envious of relationships like that.  I don't really have any close women friends like that.  While I liked Nell, I never warmed completely to Suze and I just felt sorry for Margie.  Both women were dealing with their own issues.  Suze was that other woman who had broken up a marriage, married the guy, and was now unhappy.  Margie's husband disappeared fifteen years before and she was living with another man who wanted her to marry him, but Margie wasn't willing to commit.

Fast Women is a wonderful book for a book discussion, which I hadn't expected when I first started reading it.  I think many of us who have been married for many years can relate to how hard marriage can be sometimes, how many compromises we have to make in life in general once we have families, and how we change and evolve over time.

For all the seriousness of the issues covered in this novel, what made it especially enjoyable for me was the humor.  There were comical scenes and witty dialogue throughout.  And you can't forget the mystery aspect: murder, secrets, and good china.

I am glad I read this book.  Had it not been for my book group, I would not have, and I would have missed out in a good book.  Even despite it's flaws, I still liked it.

Rating: * (Good +)

You can learn more about Jennifer Crusie and her books on the author's website

Source: I purchased an e-copy of this book.


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Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Where is Your Bookmark? (01/28/2014)

While Mouse battles the umpteenth cold this season, my husband is also sick again.  It is only a matter of time before it is my turn again, unfortunately.  I hope you all are faring better health-wise.

I am about 25% into Winter's Tale by Mark Helprin, and enjoying it immensely.  It is one of those books I wish I had several hours to just sit and read, but alas I have to sneak in moments here and there when I can.

What are you reading at the moment?  Is it something you would recommend?



Every Tuesday Diane from Bibliophile By the Sea hosts 
First Chapter First Paragraph Tuesday Intros, where  
participants share the first paragraph (or a few) of a 
book they are reading or thinking about reading soon.



Recently I took part in a book discussion of Fast Women by Jennifer Crusie, and thought I would share the opening with you.  My review will post later this week.  Nell Dysart has nothing going for her.  Her husband left her for a younger woman and took everything she'd built with him along with him, including their insurance business.  At least that is until she walks into Gabe's private detective agency looking for a job.  Fast Women has a little bit of everything from romance to mystery to a later in life coming of age story.
The man behind the cluttered desk looked like the devil, and Nell Dysart figured that was par for her course since she'd been going to hell for a year and a half anyway.  Meeting Gabriel McKenna just meant she'd arrived.  
Would you continue reading?


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Saturday, January 25, 2014

Mouse's Corner: Birthday Planning, Shoes & Mr. Peabody's Apples by Madonna

What Mouse is Doing Today:  We get to sleep in just a little on Saturdays, but even Mouse is not too excited about waking up to the alarm on Saturdays.  Mention that it's a soccer day though, and she's immediately wide awake.  Most of the time.  Today was not one of those days.  It took a little coaxing to get her up, and ready for the day.

What Mouse Needs: New shoes.  Her feet have grown yet again.  So, another activity to add to the list of things to do today.  Shoe shopping.  

What Mouse is Talking About: Mostly she is into telling stories right now.  It's so fun to witness her imagination take flight.  She may not have many life experiences to build on, but she can be quite creative when she wants to be.

She is also talking a lot about her birthday.  She even has it all planned out.  Who she is inviting.  What her theme will be.  Who will bring and do what.  I think the talk stems from the fact that so many other children in her school have birthdays this coming month.  She even can tell you the order of their birthdays before it's her turn.

She goes through phases where she sometimes calls me Mommy, Mom or Mama.  We are going through a Mama phase right now.  

What Mouse is Playing:  

What Mouse is Listening to:  "Not talk music, Mommy."  I do not generally listen to an audio book or talk radio when Mouse is in the car, but occasionally it's on when I turn the car on.  At the moment we are listening to the third CD of a children's song set.  The Wheels on the Bus is her favorite from this particular CD.  She also has been singing the Itsy Bitsy Spider song quite often lately as well as making up her own songs.

What Mouse is Watching:  All week it has been all about Caillou.  Yesterday she was in the mood for Jake and the Neverland Pirates.  While there are several shows she likes to watch, she often fixates on one at a time.  

What Mouse is Reading: 


Mr. Peabody's Apples by Madonna, illustrated by Loren Long
Callaway, 2003
Children's; 40 pgs

My daughter has an extensive book collection, but, true to her age, she often has a favorite she likes us to read to her over and over.  The favored book changes frequently, which is nice in a way.  Just when my husband and I are ready to hide a book because we just can't read it one more time, she fixates on another book.

One of her most recent favorites came as a surprise.  A surprise because I had forgotten it was on her shelf. My aunt and uncle had gotten it for her the year before last.  The other reason I find it surprising my daughter likes this book is because of its length.  I am not sure she fully grasps what the story is about just yet, but it's a lesson well worth learning.  Madonna admits the story is not a new one, based on one that has been told in one version or another for over 300 years.

Mr. Peabody is a well liked teacher who is witnessed taking an apple from a fruit stand without paying for it. Soon everyone in town thinks Mr. Peabody is a thief.  This is the story of what happens when a person spreads a rumor instead of first seeking out the truth.  

This book has an overall good message, and the author does a good job of getting her point across in a way children will understand.  I think the biggest draw for both my daughter and I though are the illustrations, which complement the story very well.  The book is set in 1949, and the pictures have a late 1940 feel to them in terms of details and characterizations.


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Mouse's Final Thoughts: Have a Happy Saturday!  And don't play with the light switch.


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Thursday, January 23, 2014

Bookish Thoughts: The Final Solution by Michael Chabon

A boy with a parrot on his shoulder was walking along the railway tracks. ~ opening of The Final Solution



The Final Solution: A Story of Detection by Michael Chabon
Harper Perennial, 2004
Crime Fiction; 131 pgs

Set in a small town in England during 1944, a young boy with an African Gray parrot on his shoulder passes by an elderly retired detective turned beekeeper.  The 9 year old boy appears to be mute.  His bird is a mystery, spouting numbers in German, sometimes singing songs and making the occasional comment.  A boarder at the minister's house is found dead, the minister's son charged with the crime, and the parrot is missing.  The police are sure they have the right man, but turn to the old detective for help in finding the bird. As the story unfolds, it becomes clear there is quite a bit of interest in this bird and the possible secrets he may hold.  During war time, codes need cracking and military secrets are highly valued.  Although the former detective refuses to work the murder case, he does agree to find the missing bird, all the while doing just what he said he wouldn't do.

It took me a moment or two when I first began reading to step into the world Michael Chabon has put together for the reader in this short book, but once I did, I was quite taken with the story, the characters, and the writing.  There is a definite literary feel to the book; Chabon takes great care in his word use and in creating atmosphere and his characters.  The characters were well drawn, even when not much was said about them.  Although, it sometimes felt as if the characters and the events in the story were kept at a distance from the reader.  I was never in the story, as I often like to be.  I was merely an observer.

I came to care for the boy.  He had seen way more than a 9 year old boy should have, an orphan and refugee from the war.  There were the Malayan minister and his wife and their wayward son, each with their own burdens to carry.  And then the boarders at the minister's house, each one with their secrets and  possible and ambiguous motives.  

I confess I am not a Sherlock Holmes reader.  I have only read one of his books, Hound of Baskersville, and while it is one of my goals in life to read more of Arthur Conan Doyle's work,  I have yet to do so. And so, I utterly failed to see the connection between Michael Chabon's elderly retired detective and the famous Sherlock Holmes.  I would not have known about the subtle connection had I not read the author's interview at the end of the novel.  Looking back, however, it is more obvious to me--the references to the old man's deduction skills, the way the police deferred to him, his pipe, and other more minor details.  I probably should have made the connection, but I didn't.  I went into the book knowing nothing about it, really.

At times the story felt more academic than entertaining, however, I came to really enjoy it and the characters Chabon created.  I like the author's writing style, and continue to be curious about his other books.  I will read more by him in the future.

Rating: * (Good +)

You can learn more about Michael Chabon and her books on the author's website.

Source: I own a copy of this book.


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