Sunday, November 30, 2025

Weekly Mews: Playing Catch Up

I am linking up to the Sunday Post hosted by Kim of Caffeinated Book Reviewer and The Sunday Salon (TSS) hosted by Deb Nance of Readerbuzz  where participants recap our week, talk about what we are reading, share any new books that have come our way, and whatever else we want to talk about. I am also linking It's Monday! What Are you Reading? hosted by Kathryn of Book Date where readers talk about what they have been, are and will be reading.

I had no intention of taking a blogging break, much less such a long one. My mom fell ill on the 28th of September, and, on October 1st, she passed away. My brother and his wife were able to drive down in time to spend her last days with her, and we were all at her bedside. It has been an extremely difficult two months as I work on getting her affairs in order and struggle with the grief. My mom and I were close, especially these last few years after she moved to be closer to my family. She was a frequent reader of my blog, although she never commented. I have a feeling it will be January before I attempt to jump back into blogging more regularly. 

Amidst dealing with my mom's affairs, marching band and color guard season was in full swing during October and November, and so my time was also taken up by chauffeuring Mouse to rehearsals and volunteering at and attending her weekly competitions. Whoever said marching band season was intense was not lying. The kids put on a wonderful field show. Mouse also participated in a few of the parade review competitions. Although I think the end of the season comes with some sadness for her, there is also a lot of relief to finally have it behind her.

For the Thanksgiving weekend, we made the trip to Utah to visit with my husband's mom and brother. It was a fairly lowkey holiday. It did not turn out to be nearly as cold as we expected, thankfully. For those who celebrated, I hope you had a nice one!  

September, October, and November Reads

My reading has suffered for obvious reasons, but it has also proved to be a distraction when I needed one the most. 
Books Read in September
Tuesdays with Morrie written and narrated by Mitch Albom
A Silence in Belgrave Square (Below Stairs Mysteries #8) by Jennifer Ashley
Sweep With Me (Innkeeper Chronicles #4.5) by Ilona Andrews
Small Island by Andrea Levy
Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt, narrated by Michael Urie & Marin Ireland
The Midnight Feast by Lucy Foley
My Sister, the Serial Killer by Oyinkan Braithwaite, narrated by Adepero Oduye
Lady Susan by Jane Austen, narrated by Denis Daly, Catherine Bilson, & Linda Barrans

September started off strong for me reading wise. It was nice to dive back into two of my favorite series, the Below Stairs Mysteries and the Innkeeper Chronicles. While Small Island was a slow read, I ended up loving it. The Midnight Feast, the month's mystery book club selection, was a bit of a disappointment and, while I enjoyed My Sister, the Serial Killer, I wasn't as taken with it as I hoped (I loved the narrator though!). I enjoyed both Tuesdays with Morrie and Lady Susan. My favorite read of September was Remarkably Bright Creatures. It was such a delightful read that felt like a much needed warm hug. 

Books Read in October
The Tainted Cup  (Shadow of the Leviathan #1) by Robert Jackson Bennett, narrated by Andrew Fallaize (re-read)
The Bewitching by Silvia Moreno-Garcia
The Book of Night Women by Marlon James, narrated by Robin Miles

My Fantasy/Science Fiction book club read The Tainted Cup in October, and although I had read a print version earlier in the year, I decided to give the audiobook a try just to refresh my memory. It kept me company as I began packing up my mom's house. Although late, I also finished reading The Bewitching, September's TBR Poll winner, and have to say it was the perfect read for the season with its Gothic elements and witch folklore tie-in. My favorite book read in October, however, was The Book of Night Women, which I had been putting off for quite some time. I listened to the audiobook at the recommendation of a fellow blogger and have no regrets other than wishing I could have highlighted a few quotes that particularly moved me. It might seem odd that I chose such a heartbreaking historical novel about slavery and plantation life after my mom's death, but the idea of picking up something light just did not appeal to me in those early days as I continued to pack up her house, and so I went in the opposite direction. It is such a powerful novel. 

Books Read in November
Demons of Good and Evil (The Hollows #17) by Kim Harrison
Apprentice to the Villain (Assistant to the Villain #2) by Hannah Nicole Maehrer, narrated by Em Eldridge
Rogue Protocol (The Murderbot Diaries #3) by Martha Wells, narrated by Kevin R. Free
A Drop of Corruption (Shadow of the Leviathan #2) by Robert Jackson Bennett
The Savior's Book Cafe Story in Another World, Vol. 1 by Oumiya, Reiko Sakurada, Kyouka Izumi
The Savior's Book Cafe Story in Another World, Vol. 2 by Oumiya, Reiko Sakurada, Kyouka Izumi
Smoking Behind the Supermarket with You, Vol. 1 by Jinushi
Frieren: Beyond Journey's End, Vol. 1 by Kanehito Yamada, Tsukasa Abe
Merry Witches' Life: Three Widows of Berlebagille, Vol. 1 by Menota

I thought maybe revisiting favorite characters by picking up the next Hollows book might help me find comfort, and it did--somewhat. I followed it up with the audiobook of Apprentice to a Villain, which was a fun escape. I continue to enjoy the Murderbot Diaries. Murderbot is such a great and unique character. I loaded up on manga for the long drive to and from Utah over the Thanksgiving holiday. My daughter had been wanting me to try the Savior's Book Cafe Story in Another World, thinking I might enjoy it. And I did very much! I also read the first volume of Smoking Behind the Supermarket with You, at the recommendation of my husband and tried out Frieren: Beyond Journey's End, which was recommended by a fellow book club member. Merry Witches' Life was cute, and I look forward to reading more in the series. My favorite November read though was A Drop of Corruption, the second in the Shadow of the Leviathan fantasy series, with its immersive world building and multi-layered mystery.  

What have I missed these past couple months? What are some of your recent favorites? 

I wondered if perhaps I was leaning on the comfort reads a little too hard when I first began reading A Witch's Guide to Magical Innkeeping by Sangu Mandanna, but I am thoroughly enjoying it now. 


I also am reading a book my mom recommended to me this past summer (and bought a copy of for her community library and gave another copy as a gift to a friend--that's how much she liked it) called Banned Together: Our Fight for Readers' Rights. Oh, how I wish she was alive so we could discuss it! I can see why she liked it so much and thought I would too.

What are you reading right now?
Following in the footsteps of Deb of Readerbuzz - With all the worries and stressors in life, 
I want to highlight some of the good, even the seemingly small stuff. 

1. As much as my brother wanted to help with packing up my mom's house, planning her memorial service, and dealing with other necessary tasks, there was only so much he could do from a distance. I was feeling overwhelmed by it all. A couple of her neighbors offered to help with the memorial service planning, taking a huge weight off my shoulders and giving me the opportunity to focus on the more pressing matter of packing up my mom's house and being out before the end of the month. I cannot tell you what a blessing they and others in her community have been these last couple months. My mother was well liked and active in her community, and her friends paid it forward by being there for me and my family. I am so grateful to them for their support. 

2. My brother and I have become closer over the past two months. Not unusual given the circumstances, I suppose--death of loved one can do that. I am grateful we have each other to lean on. 

3. Mouse auditioned for the spring high school musical and is excited she was cast in the show. Seeing her so happy makes me happy. 

Mom and Allie

I hope you have a great week! Let me know what you have been reading!

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27 comments:

  1. I am so sorry to hear the news about the death of your mother so abruptly, too. I can only understand your pain and grief a bit but I do know about undering a parent's home. We spent most of November and the end of October moving my mother out of her home of thirty years and into a retirement community. She has ceded all responsibility to me and my sibs to take care of the house, which is turning into a ton of work. I ready to dump everything and just be done with the hassle!

    I am shocked at how many books read in the middle of all the stuff you had to do. Then I thought about it abit longer and decided if it were me, I'd probably have to find time to read, even in the midst of all the grief and endless to-do things. It is the way I unhook at night so I can read.

    Interestingly, your mom's book recommendation is also a call to action. You can forever be thankful for the book recommendation when you find ways to help prevent book banning and censorship. I loved the book, too.

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    1. Anne - Thank you. I ended up having to donate a lot of my mom's furniture, clothing and other odds and ends and have a house and garage full of stuff I could keep. I had the month of October to get the house cleared out and cleaned luckily, but I was on my own for most of that time, trying to get everything taken care of. Fortunately I had time on the books so was able to take about three weeks off work to do most of it. My husband helped when he could and my brother and his wife chipped in that first week. I think the only reason I managed to get through three books that month was because two were audiobooks and I could listen to them while I worked on her house. One of those and the print book I was reading I actually had started in September before everything happened--it took me a while to get back to them. And November my reading was mostly manga and audiobooks, so pretty easy reading. I only read two full length novels in their print versions. I do make a point to read every day, even if sometimes it's only one or two pages.

      I am really enjoying Banned Together. I am sure my mom knew I would. And I love that she got a copy for her community library--she was actually the buyer for the library so had a lot of say in what books were added to the collection. She especially loved being able to slip in books like Banned Together and more diverse books when she could. Many in the community tended to lean heavily in the conservative direction while my mom was blue through and through. LOL

      Thank you for visiting!

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  2. Very sorry about your mom! I've lost both my parents and know how hard it is.

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    1. Vicki - Thank you. I am sorry you've lost both of your parents too. My dad's been gone awhile now. I thought missing him was hard but missing my mom is proving to be even harder. I'm sure that it's both now doesn't help. Thank you for stopping by.

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  3. Condolences for the loss of your mother. It’s sad that you had to do so much work during the time that you may have needed some moments to contemplate and recall better times.

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    1. Mae - Thank you. Honestly, I am not sure how I was able to hold it together, especially that first month. I am so glad I was able to take some time off work the first part of October. I fluctuated between being numb and emotional. I still do really, but at least the house is behind me now as well as the memorial service. I still have much to do, but it's not as pressing. Thank you for visiting.

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  4. All my condolences to you and your family for the loss of your mother. I'm glad you have each other to lean on.

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  5. I am sorry to hear about your mom's passing. I hope you find some time to take care of yourself in spite off all the busyness of the season.

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  6. Oh, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. That it happened so suddenly makes it even more difficult, I am sure. I am sending lots of love and big hugs your way as you wade through the grief and logistics of it all. I wonder if band, color guard, blogging, etc helps with a bit of distraction.

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  7. I am very sorry for the loss of your mother. It's a hard thing to get used to. And taking care of all the details is also rough. I wish I could see you in person and give you a hug. I have been through losing my mother around 15 years ago and I still remember that I was more than a bit 'crazy' at that time. Just lots to deal with and the emotions. Glad your Mom's friends could help with a few things. Also glad that you and your brother are closer after this experience. I'm not surprised that a few books suited well during that time. I honestly believe that during those periods, often just the right book comes into your hands. Whatever that 'right' book might be. Know that we will be here for you and will be sending love your direction. My prayers for your peace and comfort. Love hearing about how Mouse did with her fall season of band, etc. Take care, Wendy. You are a dear friend.

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  8. Oh, my heart hurts for you. I am so sorry about the loss of your mom. My mom passed away fourteen years ago, and I still think of her every day.

    I hope books continue to be a consolation. We are here for you during this rough time.

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  9. I'm so sorry you lost your mother. Wonderful your mother's friends could help with things. You had some great reads Wendy. I love the RJB books and of course, Ilona Andrews.

    Anne - Books of My Heart

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  10. I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. My condolences to you and your family.

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  11. I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. I'm glad her friends jumped in to help you with some of it.

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  12. So sorry to hear of your mother's passing. No matter what age we are, it is so tough to lose your mom. My heart goes out to you. Glad that reading provided some distraction. Congratulations to Mouse.

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  13. Oh Wendy I'm so sorry to hear about your mother's passing. Even without the grief closing an estate is an exhausting and endless task. Throw in the grief and the unexpectedness of it all and it's crushing for awhile. Lean hard into the comfort books and anything else that brings you joy. Hugs my friend.

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  14. I am so sorry to hear that she passed. HUGS. take your time

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  15. I am so very sorry to hear about your mother, Wendy. Your entire family is in my thoughts... sending hugs.

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  16. I'm sorry about your mother, Wendy. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. I will keep you and yours in my prayers.

    Assistant to the Villain was good but I haven't yet finished Apprentice to the Villain. I just can't seem to find the time these days.

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  17. I am so sorry. Losing your mom is a devastating loss. It sounds like you have good support though. When my dad died, it totally upended my world with new responsibilities. My blogging break turned into years. You’ve got a line up of good books!

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  18. Oh no, how awful. I'm so very sorry -- what heartbreak -- losing your mom. It's extremely tough. Your mom seemed so great and I'm glad for your photo of her. It seems so stunning & sudden, ugh. Take all the time you need to grieve. I am still grieving my parents from 2024 & 2025. I'm glad you've had some support .... but it's a ton of work with her house & everything. I wish you well ... it'll take a lot of time, but lean on others.

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  19. I'm SO sorry about your mom. Losing a parent is so hard. They leave such a large hole in your life. My dad died seven years ago and I still miss him, especially around the holidays. Hang in there! I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

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  20. Oh, Wendy. I am just now reading your post and am so very sorry to learn about your mom. How very sad for you and your family. I'm glad you had some of her neighbors to help with the memorial, which can be so overwhelming in the midst of grief. I'm glad you have your brother to lean on, as well. I remember helping my husband pack up his mom's apartment after she died. He's an only child and it was overwhelming and terribly sad for him. I am blessed with three brothers, and we're all pretty close, so I know they'll be here for me when our mom passes away. My husband and I live with my mom (92 this past May) and she has a large home, filled with lots of beautiful objects. It will be tough to disperse of everything, but she's planning ahead and having everyone in the family tell me (in written form) when they would like to have. What a lovely photo of your mum and Allie! Big hugs to you in the coming weeks and months. Be gentle with yourself.

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  21. I am so sorry for your loss and the grief you have to deal with. Blessings coming your way from across the miles.

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