tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post3446963552498137520..comments2024-03-18T15:27:31.588-07:00Comments on Musings of a Bookish Kitty: Sunday Salon: Guilt and the Reading Slump (Plus an update on the House)Literary Felinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13079276242303738719noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-35917159845145721212011-03-11T19:49:57.835-08:002011-03-11T19:49:57.835-08:00I wouldn't feel like reading either if I had t...I wouldn't feel like reading either if I had to deal with all that. Hope it all calms down soon...well, the house stuff anyway. The baby stuff = much excitement!Annahttp://diaryofaneccentric.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-86458724809650348142011-03-05T20:28:14.010-08:002011-03-05T20:28:14.010-08:00Good luck finding a new home. Someday it might be...Good luck finding a new home. Someday it might be fun to tell your baby that she lived in a condemned house ;)stacybuckeyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16811500448951042300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-3308817687047521682011-02-27T00:58:25.195-08:002011-02-27T00:58:25.195-08:00Hi Wendy! I'm extending moral support from afa...Hi Wendy! I'm extending moral support from afar. {{HUGS}}<br /><br />When I'm hit by a reading slump, I change reading books to reading magazines. February's coming to an end. How time flies!Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12623394887320093229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-68210222443145354582011-02-25T09:16:08.684-08:002011-02-25T09:16:08.684-08:00Elisabeth - I am sure it will work out--and I'...<b>Elisabeth</b> - I am sure it will work out--and I'll be glad when it's all behind me. :-) I do hope we are at least able to find a house before the baby comes, but time is running out. The moving can come later. It must have been quit hectic for you, having to move on your own with three kids! <br /><br /><b>Kris</b> - Yes, I'm glad something is FINALLY happening. It's not just talk anymore. <br /><br />I had a doctor's appointment yesterday and everything's going as expected. Mouse will be here sometime in the next two weeks, most likely.Literary Felinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13079276242303738719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-43831261728607157842011-02-22T14:52:14.946-08:002011-02-22T14:52:14.946-08:00That's great news about the house! I agree it...That's great news about the house! I agree it's not exactly the best time, but at least things are moving forward.<br /><br />I can't wait to hear that baby girl has arrived and that mom and baby are both fine.<br /><br />Good luck with the house hunt too!<br /><br />Regarding reading slumps....I don't exactly feel guilty, I think I just get depressed. I start wondering why I'm not reading, why am I not drawn to it, does this mean I won't want to read anymore?, etc.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17182023445485838169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-44413350742050319232011-02-21T11:21:19.780-08:002011-02-21T11:21:19.780-08:00I know how stressed you are feeling. It will all ...I know how stressed you are feeling. It will all work out in the end. I went through something similar when I was pregnant with baby #3. The hubby was traveling, so I had to do all the packing, we moved when the baby was a few days old. We brought him to the closing. Since, the hubby was still traveling, I was left in a new town, with 3 kids and a new house to unpack. We survived although it did take months to unpack.Elisabethhttp://ladybook21@yahoo.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-27138482311875788822011-02-21T08:05:33.485-08:002011-02-21T08:05:33.485-08:00Florinda - Vegging in front of the television does...<b>Florinda</b> - Vegging in front of the television doesn't sound half bad. :-) I did watch a couple of episodes of 21 Jump Street Friday on the computer. Boy did that take me back! Thank you for your support, Florinda. It means a lot to me.<br /><br /><b>Jill (Softdrink)</b> - Thanks, Jill. We visited a few homes yesterday and found one we especially liked. Unfortunately it's part of a government program we don't qualify for. There's a couple more we'd like to check out--maybe next weekend if I'm feeling up to it. <br /><br /><b>Melody</b> - Thank you, Melody. I think it's all these books sitting here on my desk that make it hard to forget. LOL <br /><br />I know you've had a lot on your plate too. I'm sure once you settle into your new work place and get into a routine, you'll probably find more time to read. You won't be able to help yourself. :-)<br /><br /><b>Caspette</b> - Thank you, Mandy. You've been such a big support through all of this. <br /><br /><b>Nat</b> - Thanks, Nat. The injury is actually my husband's, but sometimes I feel like I'm the one nursing it. ;-) He's actually been great. It just meant we didn't get any packing done this weekend since neither one of us can lift the heavy boxes.Literary Felinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13079276242303738719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-36548492776645644622011-02-21T07:57:26.041-08:002011-02-21T07:57:26.041-08:00Kay - I am the same way, Kay. Guilt seems to be s...<b>Kay</b> - I am the same way, Kay. Guilt seems to be second nature to me.<br /><br />Thank you for your kind words of support, both about the house and the pregnancy. One good thing about knowing our house is being bought just to be torn down is not needing to do any work to get it ready for market. Other than making sure it's empty, anyway. One less thing to worry about. :-)<br /><br />I don't blame you for taking an extended break. You have to do what is best for you. And you're right--reading is something we do because we want to, not because we have to. So not doing so isn't anything to feel guilty about. And yet we do. LOL<br /><br />Hubby and I have been talking a lot about how much our lives will change--just in planning our new home and where we will put everything. So much is about to change. All for the good. :-)<br /><br /><b>Ti</b> - Sometimes the days seem to take forever to go by, but overall it does seem like the time has flown by. I can't believe it's almost time for the baby either. :-)<br /><br />Thank you for your kind thoughts--and that's so nice of you to say! I do feel positive overall and I think that's helping me get through this. I won't deny though that there are times when I'm feeling much less so. <br /><br /><b>Aarti</b> - Thank you! That's definitely one way to look at it. :-) I do have time to read now and then though--I just can't concentrate for long on any one thing. <br /><br /><b>Sandy</b> - If only the city felt the same way! I'll be so glad when this whole house situation is sorted and behind us. I know what you mean though. :-) The baby doesn't need all that much to be happy. Thanks for your support, Sandy!<br /><br /><b>Heather</b> - Thanks so much, Heather. I think what I lack most in times like this is patience. I want everything done now. Unfortunately, I don't have that kind of power or control. All I can do is, like you said, be patient and good to myself. It'll be better for the baby in the long run--and probably my husband too!<br /><br /><b>Alyce</b> - Thanks, Alyce. It seems very overwhelming right now, but I'm hopeful it will all work out for the best.Literary Felinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13079276242303738719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-74180089437819173062011-02-21T07:35:54.706-08:002011-02-21T07:35:54.706-08:00Carrie - Thanks, Carrie. The rep from the city to...<b>Carrie</b> - Thanks, Carrie. The rep from the city told me that he really pushed to get things done faster for us given my condition. I almost laughed when he said that. Really? Then why were we one of the last households on the street to get our offer? Maybe they timed it now thinking we wouldn't put up much of a fight with the baby so close to coming. <br /><br />Like you, I hope we find a good house quickly and that the baby comes without any complications--mostly, I want her to be healthy. Thank you for your kind words of support! <br /><br /><b>Lori</b> - Thank you, Lori! I imagine I won't get much reading done from here on out, but hopefully I can at least finish the too books I have going before the baby comes. That's my plan anyway. If it happens, great. If not, I'll be okay with it. :-)<br /><br /><b>Suey</b> - Haha! Some days fly by for me too. I can't believe the baby will be here soon. I'm looking forward to meeting her in the flesh! Thank you for the good luck wishes.<br /><br /><b>Laura</b> - Thanks for your thoughts, Laura. It doesn't seem possible the baby will be here in another couple of weeks, maybe sooner even.<br /><br /><b>Diane</b> - Thanks, Diane. I am sure that everything will work out, one way or another. We'll get through this and end up on top. :-)<br /><br /><b>Jill (Rhapsody)</b> - Haha! I've been doing a bit of that too! Those baby books sure do come in handy.Literary Felinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13079276242303738719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-64863515449578513772011-02-21T07:23:57.978-08:002011-02-21T07:23:57.978-08:00Kathy - Thank you, Kathy. I've decided I'm...<b>Kathy</b> - Thank you, Kathy. I've decided I'm going to be lazy today (other than doing laundry) since I have the holiday off. Maybe I'll actually get some reading done. We'll see where my mood takes me.<br /><br /><b>Kelly</b> - It definitely will be worth it in the end. Thanks. :-)<br /><br /><b>Book Bird Dog</b> - Thank you. I have been reading the occasional magazine article now and then. Not that it counts for much. LOL <br /><br /><b>Darlene</b> - You are so right, Darlene. And I think that's part of what's weighing on me. Those review books I'm catching up on. I haven't accepted any in quite a few months now, but there are still the ones I have to get to. Have to isn't really the right word though--I do want to read them. Thanks for your kind words and support. I just need to remember to breathe.<br /><br /><b>Samantha</b> - Thank you, Sam! Things will eventually calm down. I just wish it was sooner than later, you know? <br /><br /><b>Linda</b> - Thank you, Linda. I'm so grateful to the support from my virtual friends. It doesn't matter that most of us have never met--we still share a bond and we worry about each other.<br /><br />And you're right. Take one thing at a time and it will all eventually get done. The story about your father-in-law sitting on the couch in the bed of the truck is funny. I can just picture it too. :-) I'm hoping we'll find something and be able to move while I'm still out on maternity leave. It'd sure make unpacking easier!Literary Felinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13079276242303738719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-83377032610053317742011-02-21T06:46:01.809-08:002011-02-21T06:46:01.809-08:00and you're wondering why reading is taking a b...and you're wondering why reading is taking a back seat? a new baby, a finding a new house, and nursing an injury. wow! wishing you easy transitions and a speedy recovery!nat @book, line, and sinkerhttp://booklineandsinker.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-17264647605152464002011-02-21T02:57:17.132-08:002011-02-21T02:57:17.132-08:00Wow could your plate be any fuller?
Good Luck wit...Wow could your plate be any fuller?<br /><br />Good Luck with everything.<br /><br />Cant wait to hear the news about your little girl, not long now. Two weeks will flash by.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04391618545224823807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-2296417160466880542011-02-20T23:22:53.287-08:002011-02-20T23:22:53.287-08:00You sure have a lot of things on your plate right ...You sure have a lot of things on your plate right now, Wendy! If I were you, reading would be the last thing on my mind although I hate to admit that, lol. <br /><br />Speaking of reading, I haven't been reading a lot ever since the relocation of our office (due to the shortened journey), and my lunch time is spent catching up with my coworkers instead of reading. (sigh)<br /><br />I hope things go on well and smoothly for you, Wendy!Melodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03967837585961009598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-10128627266895482092011-02-20T20:29:38.488-08:002011-02-20T20:29:38.488-08:00Whew, you've got so much going on I don't ...Whew, you've got so much going on I don't know when you'd find time to read! Good luck with finding a new house!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-21590268708173065012011-02-20T19:32:06.112-08:002011-02-20T19:32:06.112-08:00I think anybody would have trouble focusing on rea...I think anybody would have trouble focusing on reading with everything you have going on, Wendy! It seems like a great excuse for spending downtime in front of the TV instead of with a book :-). Good luck getting through this crazy time!Florindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09789402061034734894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-80016886569680363662011-02-20T18:36:04.881-08:002011-02-20T18:36:04.881-08:00Don't feel guilty about the lack of attention ...Don't feel guilty about the lack of attention to blog land - you've got so much on your plate right now. I can't imagine having that many irons in the fire, but hope everything works out as quickly and easily as possible for you.Alycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10919057159829023714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-46425601791086594562011-02-20T17:29:31.168-08:002011-02-20T17:29:31.168-08:00Please be patient and good to yourself during all ...Please be patient and good to yourself during all this! You are going through so much right now, and although I know you feel guilty about not reading and blogging, the reality is that there are much bigger things on the burner right now. We all go through reading slumps now and then, but with everything that is going on over there, you have a totally ironclad excuse! Be well and stay relaxed, my friend.Zibileehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05857638467064749190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-57321307823151808632011-02-20T16:37:00.391-08:002011-02-20T16:37:00.391-08:00Good Lord lady, don't feel guilty about taking...Good Lord lady, don't feel guilty about taking some time off from blogging. You have your hands full. But the truth of the matter is that the baby will be happy if she has a warm place to sleep, and food to eat. Don't overdo anything, stuff will get done. This is an amazing time in you and your baby's life, and you should enjoy it! Don't worry about reading, just try to take deep breaths!Sandy Nawrothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00564390728106776030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-3570134436091988172011-02-20T15:45:09.662-08:002011-02-20T15:45:09.662-08:00I don't think you're in a reading slump at...I don't think you're in a reading slump at all- just REALLY BUSY! Good luck with your move- I hope it goes as smoothly as possible.<br /><br />I don't think I feel guilty when I have reading slumps. Reading is for pleasure (mostly) and if something else is giving you pleasure more than reading, well... the books can wait patiently to be read :-)Aartihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02354873119188597611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-42337587060731053012011-02-20T14:44:14.207-08:002011-02-20T14:44:14.207-08:00I cannot believe that you are due soon!! It seems ...I cannot believe that you are due soon!! It seems to have gone so quickly, at least for your readers :)<br /><br />You have so much going on right now, it's no wonder you are in a reading slump. I have to tell you though, you are always so positive, no matter how stressed you are. I truly admire that quality in you. Hang in there. It will all work out.Tihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00926060806244061354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-73861393925249803432011-02-20T13:13:55.126-08:002011-02-20T13:13:55.126-08:00Wendy, you've nailed my feelings perfectly. G...Wendy, you've nailed my feelings perfectly. Guilt over my continuing reading slump. I am able to feel guilt over practically anything! LOL<br /><br />You take care. I hope the house hunt goes well. Wish I could come help you out. I'm getting this house thing down - the renovations, the clearing out, the packing, the selling, the buying and planning for new. :-)<br /><br />I've pretty much decided to take an extended break from the blogging and just not worry about my reading. I'll read when I read. It may not be for a few months even, but who ever said that we were required to read??<br /><br />I'll be thinking about you as you go through these last few days of pregnancy. I suspect some of your energy and settling is your body and mind preparing for the little new one. A baby changes everything - truly. Your life will never be the same again. Hugs to you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-70103996701526351612011-02-20T11:14:48.654-08:002011-02-20T11:14:48.654-08:00If I were you I would be frantically thumbing thro...If I were you I would be frantically thumbing through only baby books! :--) So at least you're more centered than I! But I get into slumps even without all your excuses. And yes, I feel guilty!rhapsodyinbookshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07041412748239010264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-59799111785987205452011-02-20T11:08:42.342-08:002011-02-20T11:08:42.342-08:00Wendy. it sounds like you have plenty of reasons t...Wendy. it sounds like you have plenty of reasons to feel stress and crazed lately. 919) more days I suspect is the #1 reason, add the pressure of a move as well. Don't be too hard on yourself with the reading slump--everything will work out.(Diane) Bibliophile By the Seahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10519875632878992728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-39998509617712857292011-02-20T10:33:05.078-08:002011-02-20T10:33:05.078-08:00Only 16 days?! I can't believe it! Don't ...Only 16 days?! I can't believe it! Don't worry about your reading slump. It sounds like you have your priorities in the right order at the moment. I'll be thinking of you !!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07219439074687598827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31552114.post-56411724557896417282011-02-20T10:19:34.763-08:002011-02-20T10:19:34.763-08:00Good luck with it all! The slump, the house and es...Good luck with it all! The slump, the house and especially the baby! Wow, only 16 days? Time flies when you're NOT pregnant! :)Sueyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02926501219758538615noreply@blogger.com